Where in the World is Suburban Oblivion?

Still here, although neck-deep in drama.

I can’t get much into the details right now for legal reasons, but I will say I filed for divorce last week. This came directly on the heels of an incident that involved the police, and charges have been filed on that. I wish I could spill the whole story, but I’m pretty sure I’d be getting nasty calls from a lawyer if I did. Needless to say I’m not online a lot right now(internet at home has been cut off, not by me) and so my blogging has been a bit less.

As things calm down I promise I’ll be writing a bit more, and this tale will all be told in time. (Please excuse the slowness in approving comments if you are new here, again, no internet access.)

Hope all is well, and missing you guys and your blogs terribly!

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    55 Comments

    1. Sending you go vibes….and wishing you the best.

    2. ben says:

      Hang in there!

    3. Jen says:

      Oh my gosh! Please take extra good care of yourself.

    4. Heather G says:

      Sending good vibes for you and your children. I wish you the best.

    5. I know you’ll get through this Sara.

      Hang in there and everything will work out, for the best and for better in the end.

      You know that I’m here for you, always.

    6. Oh man Sara, XOXOXO. You sound strong – I hope you can keep that up. Good luck and I look forward to hearing your story when you’re ready and able.

    7. MBG is here for ya…in time this will all be far behind you. Keep that chin up…and keep in touch with all of as you can…I look forward to reading your sense of humor and your point of view… again.

    8. Andria says:

      Sending out some good vibes for you.

      Sorry you’re going through all of this.

    9. Natalie says:

      You know I’m thinking of you, and despite what you think, you are one of the strongest people I have ever known. ;)

    10. Sara, I’m sorry to hear of your problems. Just wanted you to know that I’ll be thinking of you. I hope that everything works out wonderfully.

    11. I’m missing you too.

      Here if you need anything.

      xoxo
      Amie

    12. Brillig says:

      I can’t even imagine how traumatic all of this is. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers…

    13. Michele says:

      Obviously, I don’t know what’s going on – but it’s also just as obvious that it’s scary. I’m thinking of you.

    14. Val says:

      Hey girl, I am still here in town if you need anything, anything at all don’t hesitate to give me a call.

    15. Amanda says:

      I heart you!! And as the Christopher Robin told Pooh, “Promise me you will always remember; You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, smarter than you think”

    16. You are in my prayers. Ah yes, those ol days with the police and the hospital and the disconnected utilities and internet…. I remember them well. Remember, this too shall pass.

    17. OMG! Sending good vibes your way…

      Hope things sort themselves out for you soon!

    18. Hope you’re doin’ okay, Sara. The Internet will be here for you when you’re ready.

      xo

    19. Best of luck to you. I’ve been there as well. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you from afar!

    20. J says:

      So sorry for what sounds like a crappy time in your life. :( Best wishes that you come through this quickly and all goes well.

    21. girlymom says:

      I’ve missed your tweets and posts so much. You were the first person to “talk” to me on Twitter. You planted that little blogging seed in my head and now I’ve done it. Thank you for that because I love it.

      One quote that helped me through a difficult time:

      “Barn’s burnt down, now I can see the moon.” -Masahide

      Maybe that will mean something to you as well.
      Wishing you the best!

    22. ~JJ! says:

      Hugs to you.

      Sending you all the best wishes…

      I’m here if you need to chat.

    23. Rachael says:

      So sorry about the drama. We’ll all be here awaiting your return. Hugs and good vibes to you. It’s never easy to go through a divorce no matter what the circumstances, so I hope it goes as smoothly as it can.

    24. Christine says:

      I’m so sorry to hear about this. Take care of yourself!

    25. Jackie says:

      You are definitely in my thoughts!
      Stay strong!

    26. Cindy says:

      You are in my thoughts. Please take care…(((hugs)))

    27. Summer says:

      Take care of yourself and the kids! (((HUGS)))

    28. Bananas says:

      Sara!!!!! Hang in there!!!

    29. Cheryl says:

      You’re still in my thoughts.

    30. nutmeg says:

      My thoughts and prayers are with you.

    31. ali says:

      ohmigosh! i hope everything’s okay. sending you love, friend :)

    32. Shauna says:

      I’m so sorry to hear this. Lots of positive vibes being sent your way. Take care of yourself, too.

      And if you need anything, let me know. I’m actually going through a similar situation with lawyers and not blogging for legal reasons (not divorce, but a sexual harassment lawsuit).

      Take care, Sara.

    33. Thinking of you, S. Stay safe.

    34. What a really tough time you must be going through. You sound very strong, keep your chin up. I hope this all resolves soon. My thoughts are with you!

    35. Christina says:

      I’m so sorry. I can’t imagine the stress you’re going through.

      If there’s anything I can do, please don’t hesitate to ask. Take care of yourself.

    36. Cassey says:

      I wish there was something I could do for you. If we were neighbors I’d offer to watch your kids or make you dinner or take you to lunch to get your mind off of it all but, we since we are not… I’m not sure what to do to help except say a prayer for you and send some good vibes and thoughts your way. If you happen to think of anything I can do for you, shot me an email. :) Stay strong.

    37. Hang in there Sara. We’re all here for you!

    38. Oh, Sara. I’m so sorry life is dealing you a shitty deck. Hopefully this stress will end quickly and your life can begin anew.

      Thinking of you.

    39. Damn. When I saw you pop up on my reader I sure wasn’t expecting this. I hope everything turns out for the best.

    40. Have been thinking of you lots. Sending vibes of support and strength.

    41. Nell says:

      Hope everything goes smoothly from here on out! Hang in there.

    42. Jamie E says:

      sorry to hear the news, miss you.

    43. Lela says:

      Keep your chin up! It’s rocky right now but it will all fall into place!

    44. Cate says:

      wow…i check your blog to see how you’re doing, and i didn’t expect this! sorry to hear about what’s going on…stay strong. you’ve got lots of support here when you need it.

      i’m sending hugs and good luck vibes your way!

    45. Sara,
      Thinking of you. Be strong.

    46. Geezus…I am so sorry….

      Hugs to you….

    47. Neil says:

      Be well…

    48. Jess says:

      I am so sorry. Take all the time you need. Sending you support and hugs.

    49. Hey Sara,

      Thinking of you and sending you positive thoughts.

    50. Julie says:

      holy smokes! i turn my back for one minute (okay, maybe I’ve been a little consumed with baby for a few months) and then… wow! yikes! sending lots of love and prayers from this one little corner of the blogoshpere. you were there for me when I needed it. let me know if there’s anything i can do…

    51. Mrs. R says:

      My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Stay safe…

    52. Karly says:

      Thinking of you and sending good vibes your way.

    53. I’m so sorry you are going through this. Thinking of you, girl. Take care.

    54. Wishing you much more lemonade than lemons in your future.

    55. Ariel says:

      New here, just saying WOW! Hang in there, I’ve been there and it SUCKS!
      Its worth getting though, one way or another, because happiness is not overrated.

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