May15
Where in the World is Suburban Oblivion?
Still here, although neck-deep in drama.
I can’t get much into the details right now for legal reasons, but I will say I filed for divorce last week. This came directly on the heels of an incident that involved the police, and charges have been filed on that. I wish I could spill the whole story, but I’m pretty sure I’d be getting nasty calls from a lawyer if I did. Needless to say I’m not online a lot right now(internet at home has been cut off, not by me) and so my blogging has been a bit less.
As things calm down I promise I’ll be writing a bit more, and this tale will all be told in time. (Please excuse the slowness in approving comments if you are new here, again, no internet access.)
Hope all is well, and missing you guys and your blogs terribly!
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58 Responses to “Where in the World is Suburban Oblivion?”
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Kellyology May 15th 2008 at 11:15 am 1
Sending you go vibes….and wishing you the best.
ben May 15th 2008 at 11:16 am 2
Hang in there!
Jen May 15th 2008 at 11:22 am 3
Oh my gosh! Please take extra good care of yourself.
Heather G May 15th 2008 at 11:23 am 4
Sending good vibes for you and your children. I wish you the best.
Paul OFlaherty May 15th 2008 at 11:26 am 5
I know you’ll get through this Sara.
Hang in there and everything will work out, for the best and for better in the end.
You know that I’m here for you, always.
Erika Jurney May 15th 2008 at 11:30 am 6
Oh man Sara, XOXOXO. You sound strong - I hope you can keep that up. Good luck and I look forward to hearing your story when you’re ready and able.
Mr Business Golf May 15th 2008 at 11:31 am 7
MBG is here for ya…in time this will all be far behind you. Keep that chin up…and keep in touch with all of as you can…I look forward to reading your sense of humor and your point of view… again.
Andria May 15th 2008 at 11:35 am 8
Sending out some good vibes for you.
Sorry you’re going through all of this.
Natalie May 15th 2008 at 11:37 am 9
You know I’m thinking of you, and despite what you think, you are one of the strongest people I have ever known.
Mommy Daisy May 15th 2008 at 11:41 am 10
Sara, I’m sorry to hear of your problems. Just wanted you to know that I’ll be thinking of you. I hope that everything works out wonderfully.
MammaLoves May 15th 2008 at 11:41 am 11
I’m missing you too.
Here if you need anything.
xoxo
Amie
Brillig May 15th 2008 at 12:12 pm 12
I can’t even imagine how traumatic all of this is. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers…
Michele May 15th 2008 at 12:19 pm 13
Obviously, I don’t know what’s going on - but it’s also just as obvious that it’s scary. I’m thinking of you.
Val May 15th 2008 at 12:27 pm 14
Hey girl, I am still here in town if you need anything, anything at all don’t hesitate to give me a call.
Amanda May 15th 2008 at 12:45 pm 15
I heart you!! And as the Christopher Robin told Pooh, “Promise me you will always remember; You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, smarter than you think”
Christibear May 15th 2008 at 01:33 pm 16
You are in my prayers. Ah yes, those ol days with the police and the hospital and the disconnected utilities and internet…. I remember them well. Remember, this too shall pass.
mimipz5wjj May 15th 2008 at 02:26 pm 17
OMG! Sending good vibes your way…
Hope things sort themselves out for you soon!
Assertagirl May 15th 2008 at 02:47 pm 18
Hope you’re doin’ okay, Sara. The Internet will be here for you when you’re ready.
xo
Devilish Southern Belle May 15th 2008 at 03:14 pm 19
Best of luck to you. I’ve been there as well. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you from afar!
J May 15th 2008 at 03:26 pm 20
So sorry for what sounds like a crappy time in your life.
Best wishes that you come through this quickly and all goes well.
girlymom May 15th 2008 at 03:38 pm 21
I’ve missed your tweets and posts so much. You were the first person to “talk” to me on Twitter. You planted that little blogging seed in my head and now I’ve done it. Thank you for that because I love it.
One quote that helped me through a difficult time:
“Barn’s burnt down, now I can see the moon.” -Masahide
Maybe that will mean something to you as well.
Wishing you the best!
~JJ! May 15th 2008 at 03:43 pm 22
Hugs to you.
Sending you all the best wishes…
I’m here if you need to chat.
Rachael May 15th 2008 at 04:21 pm 23
So sorry about the drama. We’ll all be here awaiting your return. Hugs and good vibes to you. It’s never easy to go through a divorce no matter what the circumstances, so I hope it goes as smoothly as it can.
Christine May 15th 2008 at 05:58 pm 24
I’m so sorry to hear about this. Take care of yourself!
Jackie May 15th 2008 at 06:13 pm 25
You are definitely in my thoughts!
Stay strong!
Cindy May 15th 2008 at 07:23 pm 26
You are in my thoughts. Please take care…(((hugs)))
Summer May 15th 2008 at 07:34 pm 27
Take care of yourself and the kids! (((HUGS)))
Bananas May 16th 2008 at 02:20 am 28
Sara!!!!! Hang in there!!!
Cheryl May 16th 2008 at 10:25 am 29
You’re still in my thoughts.
nutmeg May 16th 2008 at 10:47 am 30
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
ali May 16th 2008 at 11:07 am 31
ohmigosh! i hope everything’s okay. sending you love, friend
Shauna May 16th 2008 at 12:41 pm 32
I’m so sorry to hear this. Lots of positive vibes being sent your way. Take care of yourself, too.
And if you need anything, let me know. I’m actually going through a similar situation with lawyers and not blogging for legal reasons (not divorce, but a sexual harassment lawsuit).
Take care, Sara.
mothergoosemouse May 16th 2008 at 02:55 pm 33
Thinking of you, S. Stay safe.
Mrs. Schmitty May 16th 2008 at 05:00 pm 34
What a really tough time you must be going through. You sound very strong, keep your chin up. I hope this all resolves soon. My thoughts are with you!
Christina May 16th 2008 at 08:03 pm 35
I’m so sorry. I can’t imagine the stress you’re going through.
If there’s anything I can do, please don’t hesitate to ask. Take care of yourself.
Cassey May 17th 2008 at 08:54 pm 36
I wish there was something I could do for you. If we were neighbors I’d offer to watch your kids or make you dinner or take you to lunch to get your mind off of it all but, we since we are not… I’m not sure what to do to help except say a prayer for you and send some good vibes and thoughts your way. If you happen to think of anything I can do for you, shot me an email.
Stay strong.
shannanb aka mommy bits May 18th 2008 at 06:15 am 37
Hang in there Sara. We’re all here for you!
Sarcastic Mom May 18th 2008 at 05:36 pm 38
Oh, Sara. I’m so sorry life is dealing you a shitty deck. Hopefully this stress will end quickly and your life can begin anew.
Thinking of you.
Blue Momma May 18th 2008 at 05:40 pm 39
Damn. When I saw you pop up on my reader I sure wasn’t expecting this. I hope everything turns out for the best.
motherofbun May 19th 2008 at 07:16 am 40
Have been thinking of you lots. Sending vibes of support and strength.
Nell May 19th 2008 at 09:28 am 41
Hope everything goes smoothly from here on out! Hang in there.
Jamie E May 19th 2008 at 09:49 am 42
sorry to hear the news, miss you.
Lela May 19th 2008 at 11:58 am 43
Keep your chin up! It’s rocky right now but it will all fall into place!
Cate May 19th 2008 at 11:12 pm 44
wow…i check your blog to see how you’re doing, and i didn’t expect this! sorry to hear about what’s going on…stay strong. you’ve got lots of support here when you need it.
i’m sending hugs and good luck vibes your way!
In the Trenches of Mommyhood May 20th 2008 at 10:28 am 45
Sara,
Thinking of you. Be strong.
crunchy carpets May 20th 2008 at 09:04 pm 46
Geezus…I am so sorry….
Hugs to you….
Neil May 21st 2008 at 11:30 am 47
Be well…
Jess May 21st 2008 at 11:38 am 48
I am so sorry. Take all the time you need. Sending you support and hugs.
Jerseygirl89 May 22nd 2008 at 06:22 pm 49
Hey Sara,
Thinking of you and sending you positive thoughts.
Julie May 22nd 2008 at 10:14 pm 50
holy smokes! i turn my back for one minute (okay, maybe I’ve been a little consumed with baby for a few months) and then… wow! yikes! sending lots of love and prayers from this one little corner of the blogoshpere. you were there for me when I needed it. let me know if there’s anything i can do…
Mrs. R May 23rd 2008 at 12:09 pm 51
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Stay safe…
Karly May 25th 2008 at 10:21 am 52
Thinking of you and sending good vibes your way.
slackermommy May 28th 2008 at 02:04 pm 53
I’m so sorry you are going through this. Thinking of you, girl. Take care.
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Ariel Jun 10th 2008 at 02:08 pm 57
New here, just saying WOW! Hang in there, I’ve been there and it SUCKS!
Its worth getting though, one way or another, because happiness is not overrated.
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